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Halle Martin's avatar

"We yearn for a partner in whose eyes we can look and feel an overwhelming loving stability, we yearn to hear the rippling laugh of a toddler and we yearn for things as simple as sunny days and solitude."

Piercing words, Ed.

Loved this piece 😊

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Lauren Cortis's avatar

This is so lovely to read. That James Joyce letter extract is going to stay with me. I think the longstanding female equivalent to incel is spinster, maybe? Or cat lady?

Thanks for this- you write beautifully.

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Edward's avatar

Thanks Lauren, that Joyce quote has haunted me (in the most beautiful way possible) for years.

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Monica Nastase's avatar

Absolutely gorgeous! Yearning is not a feeling I would have associated with men very quickly. I think more women need to read this!

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Edward's avatar

Thanks Monica! I think the softer side of masculinity needs to be brought into the light a bit more :)

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Monica Nastase's avatar

Amen!!

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